Kids and a good work ethic?

Found like its three wife that'd the problem. I have the same issue In a way. My boyfriends son lives with us and my bf is always "everyone is cleaning on saturday" and then either he keeps me up (i work nights) our wales me up and wants me to clean with him and won't get his don up to clean. He's lazier then $h**. ive been trying to tall to him about it and every once in a while he makes him do stuff but talk to her and if you have to hide the keys do it. Lol hope things get better.. But stand up to your wife and don't do everything yourself